Learning to be present to another: insights for Christians from Buddhism
Document Type
Presentation
Publication Date
12-10-2015
Abstract
Learning to be present to another requires more than practical listening skills. A contemplative approach transforms the process of listening into a spiritual endeavor. Concepts from "Buddhist psychology" can deepen our understanding of Christian teachings on how in grow in the ability to be contemplatively present:
- "You do not exist the way you think you do." (Buddhism: no-self)
"Not I, but Christ lives within me." (Christianity: interior freedom) - "Drop the story and find the feeling." (Buddhism: mindfulness)
"Stay with the inner movement." (Christianity: sacrament of the present moment) - "Cultivate unconditional friendliness with oneself and all beings." (Buddhism: loving-kindness)
"Abide in loving relationship with self, others and God." (Christianity: Trinitarian love)
Recommended Citation
Van Ness, Becky, "Learning to be present to another: insights for Christians from Buddhism" (2015). Forum Lectures. 138.
https://digitalcommons.csbsju.edu/forum_lectures/138
Comments
The original version of this talk was presented to the Monastic Interreligious Dialogue and is available at
http://www.dimmid.org/index.asp?Type=B_BASIC&SEC=%7B7B7DDE5E-1CED-486F-B79C-D7FD29B73FD4%7D
The slides for this presentation are not available.